Leap of faith

Being negative doesn't get you anywhere! I'm that person who replies "but it's too hard not to stress" my husband says to me this morning "if someone told you that stressing over this transfer will not allow it to work and kill your embryo would you stop stressing or say it's too hard". I knew he was right but my first instinct was to get my back up and say to him "how do I not stress"  instead I asked him "how do you not stress" as he his always so calm and he said "because we have been given a great opportunity for this to actually work, the other times we weren't doing anything different and still getting the same negative result, this donor egg cycle is a game changer" 

That conversation has turned the light on in my head!  It's that simple, how I act or react is affecting my chances so I choose hope and faith again!!